Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Seminar

I dare say that I've attended a very meaningful and interesting seminar today.
One of the speaker was invited to talk about Quality of Life by Mr. Luke Bong.
He start off his speech with a game. A simple but meaningful game which make all of us excited and laugh. Now that everyone is fully awake, he then continue with his talk.
The point that he given is so true. We human live under the house of blame, justify and excuses. Have you ever blamed a person? Give yourself excuses why you were late to work? When he talk about this, everyone knock their head. this is so true.
And then he continue with showing us a video

Validation.
When is the last time you validate a person?
When is the last time you felt appreciated?

And then he asked everyone of us to hold the piece of paper that is in our hand and crush it.
Then ask us to make it smooth again. So what did we see on the paper?
Scar is the word.
What he's trying to tell us is that, we build relationship with communication.
We cannot take back the words we said. That is why, if we were to be angry and wanted to shout at someone, do stop and ponder. Because we can NEVER take back the words we said.
We cannot just say "eh brother, i'm sorry for what i've said, i take it all back". It's too late.
Don't you agree?

There was one more point. He said something about Women can multitasking at one time while Men can only focus one thing at a time. LOL. Don't you agree?

I'm not good at repeating what he said. I wished that i've recorded the whole process and able to share with you all. But I'm so sorry.
Do enjoy the video and check out his blog if you are free.

2 comments:

Luke Bong said...

Thank you for your kind comments. Glad that you enjoyed the talk. Cheers!

woei said...

wow..Mr. Luke visited my blog. thank you for the speech. Even tough it's only half an hour talk but i really do learn a lot from you. Thank you once again.